appropriately, i came on to find this thread and it's right back at the top already, hehe.
just want to rant a moment, if thats okay!!!
i got completely played this weekend been flirting with this fella for ages, texting and stuff, and he's one of a bigger gang of mates i have that all go out together every week. friday i went home with him and you know... all the expected stuff happened, i was pleased, had a good nightk, thought at most we could do it again and see what happened, and at least we'd just be mates again like before. but nooooo, now, he completely blanks me when he sees me, ignores my texts and wants nothing to do with me. which is sad cos we were mates, sad cos i feel an idiot now and also damn uncomfortable cos we drink in the same pub,an go to the sam,e clubs with the same friends.... ARGH.
So my understanding of men has just taken a nosedive. And my self confidence is taking an even bigger one.
very true. I didn't pick up chicks until I treated them like ****. But I'm a sweet ******* now
Haha. Yeah if I want a girl I'll just go out, pick one I like and punch them in the face... only kidding. Most girls could easily beat me up. I'm probably the only male on the planet to go through life without fighting.
Has anyone seen the episode of the IT Crowd where they make an ad in a lonley hearts. He writes it as if he's a total bastard but gets a response so he goes on a date pretending to be a bastard. I just found a clip of it on youtube for y'all.
Yeah the whole 'treat em mean keep em keen' has been done to death but god, it works!
I have never known a man to turn down sex though, frankly that's disturbing! It's a womans greatest tool to get what they want! lol
The bastard thing works both ways though, I've always been pretty casual with guys and even now I'm more of the typical 'man' in the relationship, like forgettin birthdays and stuff like that I am terrible at! And I don't / can't do romance, just makes me cringe! But guys don't seem to mind and I think it keeps them keen on me, lol!
There is nothing that makes me more uncomfortable than to hear about a clingy woman! When I go out with my male mates and their gf's are on the phone ringing, texting, 'where are you, what you doing, who's that girl in the background' - ARGH! Sort it out for christ sake, if I was your boyfriend I'd snog your best mate too!! lol
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Heaps. I'm seriously the only person I know who actually knows my mobile number. Everyone else has to keep theirs in their phone in case they have to give it out.